princess2queen said: Hello, I'm a sub in a loving relationship. My dom really wants to throat fuck me, but I don't know how. Every time he tires I gag and tense up. Do you have any recommendation on what I should do/ how I can deep throat my master?
The key is to find what kind of practicing technique works best for you since there is no one tried and true method. It also depends on the curve of the cock in question. But for the most usual and trusted tips, I recommend doing a few things. One, when you practice, make sure you lift your chin to create more of a straight line from your mouth to your belly. You don’t want there to be a right angle that something has to jam its way past. Two, make sure you’re also well hydrated and that you have plenty of saliva in your mouth and throat so that anything can slip through more easily. Third, practice with something soft and flexible, not hard and straight. And try something smaller for starters. For example, and I know this sounds weird, try grabbing onto the tip of a hot dog and lower the entire thing slowly down your throat. You can find longer hot dogs and/or larger sausages to practice with too. But then you’ll want to use a flexible long rubbery dildo of some sort, and a thin one. Lastly, try swallowing things to simply practice swallowing and taking things down your throat but pulling them back out, like a long fettucini noodle for example.
Once you’ve done these sorts of things, working with a real live member should be less stressful. Try it when he’s half hard as that will be ideal for throating since it is bendable and such. And remaining calm, with a drink or two in your system perhaps, is the best way to prevent from clenching up. Practice is good for physical practice but also for the psychological aspect of keeping your throat open instead of tensing up.
Before you know it, you just might be able to take it fast and furiously down your throat. I like this position best, so I wish you well in working all the way up to that. Best….